TIPS TO MAKE FRIENDS SOON
Updated: Sep 16, 2022
If you want to know how to make friends, you have to know the psychological behaviour of people and how the mind works. Every person wants importance in their life and importance is the best tool which can be used to influence them. Everyone wants to talk about themselves not about others. So, here i am going to tell you some tips which may affect the result.
1) TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES
The most important subject that anyone will want to talk about with you is… THEMSELVES.
When you are talking to people, forget about ‘I,’ ‘my,’ and ‘mine’ for a while and substitute it with a word that will make you a very sought after conversational partner: The word ‘YOU’. ‘What can I do for YOU?’ ‘Is there anything I can help YOU with?’ ‘This can be very beneficial for YOU.’ ‘How are YOU today?’ ‘What are YOUR favourite…?’
TALK TO PEOPLE ABOUT THEMSELVES AND THEY WILL LISTEN FOR HOURS.
2) MAKE PEOPLE FEEL IMPORTANT
Every person in the world has Desire. The Desire to be recognized.The desire to be important. The desire to be noticed. The desire to be ‘someone.’ This is the most powerful motivator. It’s the reason for doing good things and unfortunately, for a twisted mind, also the reason for doing bad things. Your interest must be real. Every great uses this techniques.
Don’t ignore them, don’t talk down on them. Make them feel important. Listen to them! If you don’t listen, they feel unimportant.
GREAT LEADERS MAKE PEOPLE FEEL IMPORTANT.
When you call someone, make sure call them with their names. because everyone in world likes their names.
You can also remember their birthday date and wish them as soon as possible. it makes them important person in your life .
3) AGREE WITH PEOPLE AND AVOID ARGUMENT
Never start argue with people, it can lead to bad result .Because people like the people who agree with them and want to stay away from the people who disagree with them.
IF YOU CAN'T WIN THE ARGUMENT. YOU CAN'T BECAUSE IF YOU LOSE IT, YOU LOSE IT; AND IF YOU WIN IT, YOU LOSE IT.
Learn to agree with people nod your head. Say yes , i totally agree with you
Fools people disagree with them ( mostly people do the same ). And intelligent ,wise and decision makers agree with people
You may change the topic whenever need, walk away from there.
4) SMILE WHEN YOU MEET
Do you know how you can make most people friendly, cooperative and polite in those first few seconds? SMILE—and smile a lot! In the first moment when the door opens, when you make eye contact, even before you say anything; give the person your most sincere smile.
You can also smile while you are talking to people on phone because they can feel that smile.
It makes them smiled. By the way smiling is also good for health.
A SMILE IS A CURVE THAT SETS EVERYTHING STRAIGHT.
5) LISTEN CAREFULLY
When you are talking to people, you have to become good listener.
Listen them genuinely with full interest.. Look at the person who is talking. Listen with your eyes, with your ears, with your whole body and keep looking at them. Nod your head to show them you are agreeing with their points and smile. Lean towards the speaker. Show interest. Show them you don’t want to miss a single word. Ask questions. This will show the speaker that you are listening and will flatter him/her.If you want to give advice, ask for permission.
LISTENING IS OFTEN THE ONLY THING NEEDED TO HELP SOMEONE.
6) GO TO CAFE OR RESTAURANT WITH THEM
I personally believe that if you want to make friend, then you have go cafe or restaurant with them.When you go with them, she /he will be fascinated with you and wants to know you which is very necessary thing in relationship/ friendship.
NOTHING BRINGS PEOPLE TOGETHER LIKE FOOD IN RESTAURANT.
Finally, I want to say make good friends because
"THINGS ARE NEVER QUITE AS SCARY WHEN YOU HAVE GOT A BEST FRIEND".